From The Times:
"Orhan Kaya and Can Onel were the first to kill themselves. The two friends, aged 24 and 19, hanged themselves at the same spot in the same church graveyard in Hackney, within weeks of each other in the summer. Since then, seven more have followed suit. The latest is Murat Yaldir, 23, found hanged last week by the owner of the takeaway he worked for. Almost all the suicides have taken place in the heart of Britain’s Turkish community in North and East London. The grim statistics show that Turkish and Kurdish men are now the ethnic groups most vulnerable to suicide in this country. Taking into account the recent cluster of suicides, they are about seven times more likely to commit suicide than South Asians, the next most susceptible group. The present suicide rate among Turkish men is double the national average."
Now read on.
orhan was my brothers best frend and can onel wasmy best freind i tried and tried to understandwhy and never had an answer ..ORHAN AND CAN U WILL ALLWAYS BE IN MY HEART SOMETIMESI CRY WHEN I THNK ABOUT YOUS..
Posted by: pasa demir | June 26, 2013 at 09:14 PM
I used to be Can's girlfriend, the pain will never go away and we will never understand why he did this, Can was one in the best people I knew I still can't believe this happened to him, I will miss him forever
Forever in my heart
Jill xxx
Posted by: Jillian Russell | July 27, 2013 at 02:18 PM
When i saw the dates on your grave, i relised Its going to be 7 years in july that u have gone. Times gone so quick. I think of u like its only been a few months. Miss u so much. U are always in my heart ORHAN KAYA... R.I.P xxx
Radz
Posted by: Radz soyal | April 28, 2014 at 09:19 AM
I am cans cousin. we all knew he was one in a million he obviously done this because of the stress people around him gave to him and other issue that caused him to stress, his gone 4 now but oneday we will reunite i knw tht cuz love you to bitz and forever, Orhan i never had to chance to meet him and is all my friends friend, which ive heard alot of good stuff about him i knw he was just like my cuz..! Rest in peace ORHAN and ❤️CAN aka TERMINATOR... :-(
Meltem
Posted by: Meltem | August 25, 2014 at 07:19 PM
Orhan i speak ur name in my heart and in my brain every day of my life, i knw u hear me i knw ur alwayz around. Today we had had a long chat at ur grave and the only question i had to ask was why? I try, i look for a reason, for a clue but im left blank. Many of our young turkish/kurdish boys has ended their lives. Where no one will ever knw the reasons. The only thing we could do is say our prayers and to hope they are in a gd place watching over us. Always will remember been woken up every morning by ur msg "good monrning my star". U will always be on my mind, ur name will be on the tip of my tongue until the last breathe i take. I promise. Ur alwayz gna be in my heart.
R.I.P ORHAN KAYA....
R.I.P CAN,SERHAT,OLGU and all of our loved ones
Cem
Posted by: Cem | November 02, 2014 at 09:30 PM
Orhan u still being missed and u are not forgotten xxx
Posted by: Radz | May 28, 2016 at 05:29 PM